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To answer your questions Sissy Panty Buns, I feel ...

2011-05-29T09:13:29.452-07:00

To answer your questions Sissy Panty Buns, I feel that dealing with masochistic sissies that regular spanking wouldn't be the norm since it's becomes erotic play with them. There are many ways to make them uncomfortable so that the actual spanking denotes more of a punishment role than a pleasurable one.

Personally, while I like to spank on a regular basis for therapy purposes, when I want to punish My sissy for bad behaviour, I use other methods to modify it. The spanking therapy that My sissy receives deals with more of the psychological connection that I have developed with her to keep our roles clearly defined and her in her place. She doesn't have strong masochistic tendencies, so this method works well in My situation.

As for your last comment, spanking therapy isn't for the sissy or submissive's amusement, but is used as a tool to define the dynamic between both parties. When I take on a new sissy or sub, I do not use this at the beginning of our relationship until I feel that it has been established or it truly wouldn't work well. As with most D/s play, it's all about the dynamic between the the Mistress and sissy or sub that determines whether this therapy is beneficial or not.

i agree that weekly spanking therapy could be quit...

2011-05-23T17:34:00.957-07:00

i agree that weekly spanking therapy could be quite beneficial, but have multiple questions about it:

What are your thoughts about masochistic sissies who tend to top from the bottom or those who cling to patriarchal or masculine behavior?

Do you think that some sissies can, in some circumstances, benefit from submitting to consensual "no mercy" spankings if specific behavioral and attitudinal modification could not be effected otherwise (i.e.: such as learning to be humble, learning respect, and ceasing the proclivity to top from the bottom)?

i personally doubt that therapy limited to what i could easily stand would change my own behavior.

i also wonder whether most potential sissies just fantasize and wimp out when the therapy starts thus failing to provide amusement and creating frustration rather than being an outlet for it?

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2011-03-02T11:25:29.608-08:00

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Spanking therapy is too panic ...

2011-02-11T07:13:26.879-08:00

Spanking therapy is too panic ...