tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post4646619689034441477..comments2008-12-21T20:46:58.774-08:00Mistress Kikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09176176076301690922noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-65775749894525761512008-12-16T21:08:00.000-08:002008-12-16T21:08:00.000-08:00I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I don't know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog. I will keep visiting this blog very often.<BR/><BR/> Sarah<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://www.thetreadmillguide.com" REL="nofollow">http://www.thetreadmillguide.com</A>sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12794145254348117550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-20645670958955545272007-07-01T05:48:00.000-07:002007-07-01T05:48:00.000-07:00Somewhere on ur blog u mention how once ur pleasure and delight, while receiving oral worship from spirit, made him come without touching himself.If this were repeated consistently, and all other methods of release denied to him,then it will not be long before he develops a mental and emotional linkage of his release with ur pleasure.A submissive's release then becomes an almost reflex action totally dependant on mistress's pleasure.His pleasure is no more than a mere spinoff, or a secondary consequence, of the mistres's orgasm which rises to to be the one and only focus and target for both of them. After all it is in line with a d/s relationship that the subissive,badly needing release, should beg his mistress not for his release but for the privilege of pleasuring her.9661ts4o7noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-73956128374784892462007-06-09T18:08:00.000-07:002007-06-09T18:08:00.000-07:00more updates please!!!The Profit Princesshttp://theprofitprincess.com/home.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-84316756163942616382007-04-19T18:13:00.000-07:002007-04-19T18:13:00.000-07:00This is interesting. I have to admit I haven't thought about this enforcing of "self-care" before.<BR/><BR/>Thank you.Encounteredhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06844307778452563758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-42266928936640384552007-03-16T02:34:00.000-07:002007-03-16T02:34:00.000-07:00Hi - yes caring is very much an issue and much neclegted unfortunately. I have found that a good thing to do is to make self-care a task for the sub: i.e. "care for your Masters' or Mistresses toys, including yourself". This puts their mindset in a different yet often more effective state, since it is something they recognise. Also, it clearly showes the slave that self-care is actually something that pleases the dominant (most slaves - males especially - feel that by being neglected they are verving their dominant).<BR/><BR/>Hans (webmaster powerotics.com)Hanshttp://www.powerotics.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-65326688797349046112007-03-15T12:17:00.000-07:002007-03-15T12:17:00.000-07:00I agree with you 100% that denied sexual release makes a better submissive. Caring for a sub is much more than just playing with him or her in the bedroom. Right now I am having to monitor my sub very closely to make sure he doesn't over do it after having a medical procedure Tuesday. Thanks for your blog.Mrs. Claudiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00508800418677995106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9876952.post-87506020205988014742007-03-13T19:09:00.000-07:002007-03-13T19:09:00.000-07:00Some have suggested there is a connection between emission and prostate health. But this is mostly speculation. And can be dealt with via prostate massage which can induce ejaculation without orgasm.Fhttp://www.fetishlore.com/noreply@blogger.com