Monday, June 26, 2006

A Natural Progression to FemDom


The first power we all know is Female. When we were children the first authority we know is Mother, in all Her glory or fury. Father is always there in the background but in many families, it is Mother who lays down the law as it is to be followed, She who might punish but who always forgave.

Although all Women start life as Daughters, not Mothers, they must someday move forward from being a powerless child to being a Woman in authority. Becoming a Domme is one way to celebrate your innate Female strength. Indeed, every Woman, whether She becomes a Mother or chooses not to bear children, must experience the transformation into a Female authority in order to become an adult, truly Her own Mistress and to find the Goddess within.

This transformation was considerably simpler in the days when Goddess worship was the way of life. Within our patriarchal society, a Woman’s worth has been feared and suppressed with the resulting marginalization of half of the world’s population. But slowly a shift is happening. Woman and men are recognizing that the system in place doesn’t work, that it neglects the most important issues that face a Woman’s future today; Her right to live her life as she see fit with supportive males to lift Her up. As difficult as it is for a young Girl deal with Her passage into Womanhood, She must learn to accept and use Her innate Female power in order to gain the independence and control She so much deserves.

It took a while for Me to find My inner authority. I always knew it was there, strong but shy, waiting for My confidence to build up for it to be released. I feel it was one of the main reasons why I felt angry so much of the time before I discovered D/s. I was independent and self assured in knowing what I wanted but was unable to reach it. I was psychologically knocked back every time when I attempted to push the boundaries that had been set in the relationship I had. It was a very fustrating time in My life but a learning experience too. I solidified what was important to Me and gave Me the grit to go after what I wanted and to end the relationship I was in. Soon after I discovered D/s and as they say, the rest is Herstory. I heard somewhere that you can't enjoy the sweet without tasting the bitter first and oh how sweet it is being in a loving D/s relationship.


20 Comments:

At 6:17 am, Blogger Mistress Nahemah said...

Your boy, spirit, hipped Me to this blog and I am so glad he did. I, too, found Myself angry most of the time in My relationships previous to discovering D/s. The natural authority I had was wasted on men who simply tried to supress Me, change Me, make Me something I wasn't.

A wonderful blog with lots of food for thought.

Thank You.

 
At 9:28 pm, Blogger spellbound said...

Dear Mistress Kika -- As a man, Your choice of words goes straight to my heart in the way it describes what i find so admirable about Women. It is wonderful how you portray FemDom as part of the natural growth of a Woman. My wife was raised by an overbearing, mythomaniac and narcissistic mother, who stunned that process and literally clipped Her wings. I am trying to create the conditions for the process to reignite. Thank You for Your blog.

 
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