Tuesday, May 30, 2006

Are you worthy?

Get into the groove, boy you’ve gotta prove yourself to Me. Ok, so it’s a twist on Madonna’s radio version, but doesn’t that phrase totally fit into O/our D/s lifestyle? It’s about the worthiness of a submissive and how he has to maintain that level of approval with his Mistress.

Once a sub jumps through all the hoops to actually become collared submissive, you would think that he would do everything in his power to maintain that bond. Sadly, this isn’t always the case. Some feel that by being collared, the goal has been attained. others, especially if they have the honor of being married to their Mistress, feel that there commitment level is confirmed by their wedding ring. They do not see it as journey. Oh, how wrong that attitude is. Don’t submissive men realize that they can be married to their Mistress but she doesn’t have to have them as a submissive if their service to her slides and/or completely diminishes? No where is it written that a Mistress can not ‘un-collar’ her subby hubby and have him in Her life as regular husband. After all, it is her right to do so. She may even perhaps decide to look for other male submissives who will worship and serve Her as She should be served. I suppose this could be considered a mild version of cockholding.

When Mistress takes Her time to properly train a submissive who in consideration for being collared, it is up to him to learn from Her training all that he can and be ready & willing to serve Her in whatever way She decides. Many men find this reality difficult and very different from the fantasy they had envisioned until the time of truth arrives. That magical moment, when they finally become ‘owned’, the goal every submissive desires can fade fast if the motivation behind the submissive is self-centered instead of selfless. A submissive must prove himself worthy on a regular, if not, daily basis in order to preserve to relationship that he is forming with his Mistress or face the prospects of replacement.


At 3:44 am, Blogger fd said...

i think many married submissives tend to take their Dominant Wives for granted from time to time. Thank You for reminding us just how much we can lose by letting our servitude slide.

At 5:40 am, Anonymous Ritwik Banerjee said...

Thoughtful post. I think most men think of submission as a private fantasy and not a real act of submission. For example, they will probably not be able to digest the idea that the lady is not in a mood to punish him. Real submission is to follow all orders (discussions on serious issues are fine, but otherwise) without a sense of grudge developing in the heart.

I don't think I have seen a single true submissive man in my life.


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