Monday, March 21, 2005

Making the time

This last weekend was a busy one for U/us once again but I was still able to make a little time for U/us to play. Sometimes it’s difficult to do this but reinforcing O/our intimate lives is worth the effort. I also find that it’s important to keep some sort of consistency going on in the relationship or well established roles start to become a little bit less defined. Any Mistress who has had to deal with a bratty sub knows exactly what I mean!

There isn’t always the need for a big scene to make an impression on your sub. I’ve been fortunate enough with My training of spirit that I can start to take him to sub-space with minimal intervention. A tonal change in My voice or stroking certain areas of his body is all it takes for him to make him start to take off. his ears and nipples have become highly sensitive to My touch and I can get him erect within 5 minutes with gentle licks (and sometimes not so gentle) pinching and strokes without even touching his member. I have been making him hard in this manner so I can work on his erection training. he has no problem becoming erect but maintaining the erection is where the practice is needed. I’m happy that his erotic feelings are strong for Me but this makes it difficult for him to focus and as a result he cums far too quickly which leaves Me frustrated. I've realized that I have to become more consistent with his milkings. I started some of this type of training last fall but let it slide over the holidays which was a mistake. I was getting good results at that time but now I’m back at square one. I will have to start over and work it back into regular sessions again. The longest he lasted before was 15 minutes but I know he can do much better than that. When I am on top of him, I try to get him to focus on other things without loosing his erection but this can be difficult. It’s like an ‘all or nothing’ mind set. Um, how to train the brain to make the body function at command? It is something that W/we will be exploring over the next little while.

In the meantime, I am planning a special evening for U/us on the 23rd of this month as spirit was originally collared on August 23, 2004. I want to perform a distinctive D/s Bonding ceremony for U/us. spirit knows that it is in the works but has no idea what I am planning. I’ve been finding ideas on the net and have come up with something that will be very unique for U/us to share. W/we have taken O/our vanilla vows, now it is time for U/us to take O/our D/s vows that will carry U/us throughout O/our lives. I will write about it after it is completed so it doesn’t spoil the surprise for spirit. I hope he will be touched as deeply as I know I will be.


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