Tuesday, January 25, 2005

Vandalism

There was a bit of an unsettling incident that happened at My place yesterday. When I came home last night I noticed the window in My laundry room was broken. A taped up rubber ball was thrown threw it. I think that it might of happened the night before while I was in bed as I did hear a bang but I thought that it was just the neighbours in the suite below Me being a bit loud. I live in an attic suite in an old character house so I know that this was more than likely a deliberate act as the broken window is about 14 feet above the ground on the third level. Honestly, it has left Me a bit shaken. I used to date a man that I had met online in a vanilla way who didn’t like the fact after a few dates that I wasn’t interested in him. In a momentary lapse of reason, I made the mistake of giving him My home number instead of My cell number and showed him where I lived. When I told him I wasn’t interested in him, he started to harass Me online and then threatened numerous time to come to My place. It was all power play on his part because he couldn’t handle that I didn’t want to be with him. I had thought that I had heard the last of him about a year ago but then he started bothering Me online last month again. I had blocked him numerous times but he kept switching online ID’s and accounts. I usually knew within a few minutes of talking to someone if it was him or not. I was tired of being super detective so I decided to change My online ID and account. I thought that this would be the end of it. Well in the last few weeks I’ve been receiving phone calls with the caller hanging up a few times a day and now the window-breaking incident. Perhaps I am jumping to conclusions in thinking that this is related to that nutty person; truly it could be just a random act of vandalism. Either way, it makes Me want spirit to be with Me more than ever. It doesn’t matter if you are a Mistress or not, being a single woman in a large city can be scary at times. I was speaking with spirit last night about it and he tried to make Me feel better by changing the subject and joking around. But I felt that he was just being bratty and started to get annoyed with his manner. Now that it is a day later I understand what he was trying to do but at the time My emotional brain was taking over and I felt that he was minimizing My feelings about the situation. It’s frustrating when you are not both on the same page. In the end it was all good and I do appreciate what he was trying to do. In a few days all this won’t matter as much since he will be with Me by My side and living with Me. I look forward to that day.

1 Comments:

At 7:01 pm, Blogger Struggle For Justice said...

Ms Kika, Have you contacted the police? If this guy is that aggressive it would be best, especially if you live alone. I don't imagine you have a guard dog, do you?

 

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